this video was quite some times ago, and i watched it again today.
this is a pretty good video, reflecting the stages in a relationship in current trend. i found it so true, and which stage are you in now?
life goes on as usual, time flies just like a blink of eye, everything is constantly changing.
when i’m watching the video, everything seems so likely to happen in a relationship.. from the meeting, proceed to chase and honeymoon, then progress to comfortable and tolerate stages, and then relationship goes down hill and eventually end up with breaking up.
is it every relationship turns out like this way?
when you think of your parents, and those elderly who still hold each other hand in the shopping mall, are they amazing? they can be together for such a long time. and how can they maintain the relationship?
and sometimes i think, love a person shall be not something forever, sometimes, when you love someone too much or too long, and end up it is a responsibility for you to love him/her. sparkling of love is no longer there, and it just turn out another chapter for you, building up a family and work hard, struggling to earn money.. bla bla bla.
i’m always thankful that life does go on. i am anticipating the challenges of changing from one stage to one stage, no matter in a relationship or my future undertakings..
message i am going to bring out is… make a difference. i don’t want mine just same as the others, follows the typical trend…
never take it for granted, sometime a “sorry” “how are you” “everything will be ok” “thank you” will make things different. i rarely express myself, haha, as i am a typical asian. when you get mad, you just have to calm down, and think at his/her side.. everything happens for a reason. a hug, a kiss might be important to care and give support to someone.
well, i shall kick my ass back to my work now. =)
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